Dating: Worried About Your First Date With A Girl?

Are you worried about your first date with a girl you find yourself greatly attracted to?

Well, if you have finally plucked up your courage to ask her out and she said yes, then you are in a good place. A girl will not agree to go out on a date with you if she finds you unattractive or obnoxious, so you should feel very positive about your situation. The right disposition is very important for helping you plan an enjoyable evening with her. And if you play your cards right, you may just end up with many subsequent dates with her. (Note that if you cannot ever seem to get a date in the first place that you should seek out expert help from an expert like Vin DiCarlo.)

Securing a win on the first date is not as difficult as some men make it out to be. It just takes a little planning and a lot of fresh positive energy and good sense.

Find out what she likes in advance. Is she into Italian food? Does she enjoy dancing? Does she prefer a quiet, intimate, candle-lit dinner in a beautiful exclusive restaurant? Or would she rather spend the night in a vibrant nightclub – and experience a night that is lively, animated, and pulsating with cheer and energy? Inviting her out on a date that she is likely to find enjoyable is more than half the battle. And she is likely to appreciate your effort at finding out what it will take to make her happy.

Be chivalrous. Even in this day and age, girls still appreciate thoughtful and courtly gestures that point to the fact that her comfort and enjoyment mean a lot to you. Opening the door for her, pulling out her chair, making sure that she is never short of wine on her glass or food on her plate are little things which she will notice…and appreciate.

While you are paying her attention, do not forget that she has her eyes on you. Watch yourself, albeit discreetly. Dress nicely; make sure that you are neat and fresh, and smell good – these things go big with girls. Be a true gentleman – considerate, thoughtful, and well-mannered.

Make sure that both of you enjoy the night together. Do not be so worried about how the date will go that you forget to have fun.